Our Children deserve a stable home!
For Kids, Home is always a place for their safe refuge, a safe haven from the sick and crazy world out there. It is their castle where they can run to when they have problems. This is why it’s vital that our kids have a stable home life!
How does one define a stable home?
Stability offers a type of calmness and signifies a firm and safe ground! Home is a place a child should want to be, it’s a place where their family lives together in peace and harmony. Home is a place you find balance and organization, peace and safety, these things are considered stable.
Why is it necessary that a child have a stable home life? What justifies for this need?
The formative years of a child begins @ home!
First Impressions that have a permanent mark on a child’s mind is within the first years of life. It’s during these crucial these years of their exposure they gain several perspectives about life. Their first experiences with family are their first episodes of life they learn from.
If your home isn’t a stable home, a child will grow thinking not just his family is unstable, but the world is unstable; that it’s normal to have excessive arguments with family or people around you, that divorce or separation is inevitable, something to be expected, being physically violent is something acceptable. These are just some extreme examples, but these things make a home unstable.
As a teenager growing up a home should be a source of strength and love. When you’re a teenager growing up can be a great challenge these days. The pressures are around every corner; school, peers, and family. And families should be the first place to provide a stable home as family members genuinely care about one another or at least they should.
Teens are in need of support as well as guidance, it is a significant transition from childhood to adulthood, this should be derived from home!
But how can kids get this if the home itself is unstable? The need for a physically, emotionally and morally stable home is an absolute must!
So remember what your children need from parents! Stability, Love, Understanding, To feel safe at home! Remember your children are a product of their environment and what they learn is how they will later live!